FORGIVENESS
COMPLETE FORGIVENESS
FORGIVENESS is the most important key to self-healing and receiving a miracle.
Grace is "unmerited favor" a gift that is free, not earn-able or deserved. Grace is the essence of Love which absolves all our guilt. For us to receive Grace, we must be willing to give it. The act of channeling Grace is forgiving. In fact, it is not until we open the Giving Door, that we can we open the Receiving Door. "Forgive us our trespasses AS we forgive those who trespass against us," is a metaphysical truism spoken by our Christ. When we bestow the Grace energy, we displace the darkness in ourselves.
When we keep manifesting the same self-sabotages, we can ask Spirit for guidance to reveal those whom we have chosen to take offense from, and give blame to. We can release the blame energy by declaring "I choose to allow forgiveness for ___________to flow through me;" and "I choose to take responsibility for the incident"...(perhaps by making myself available for it, or choosing to take offense." In a matter of seconds, our own state of self-condemnation, self-hate, shame or guilt can be released.
If we hate, we are generating and perpetuating a consciousness field in hell-zone. To "dispel" the demise of our own soul, we can choose to surrender to the power of love, and declare, "I choose to let Spirit love this person through my emotional body-even if I do not feel like it." This is aligning with Spirit through Free-will.
To honor one's own heart or safety, one may have to leave an inconsiderate relationship, or create a distance, if the other person does not choose to change as well.Forgiveness can bring a miracle, even in a life and death matter. Most people's efforts to forgive are incomplete. Here is a break-down for thorough treatment: Forgiveness requires a recognition and acknowledgement of the HURT; A decision to care about yourself, enough, and a promise to protect yourself by avoiding that situation in the future; An emotional release of the stored anger in a safe place for you and others; A change in position by admitting that taking offense was a free-will choice. Releasing the offense, (it was the other person's choice to act like-whatever.) It was their stuff. It was them being them. Correct your choice to become a reactive victim. It is possible to release the self from a victim position by choosing to "not react." This shifts the soul to a higher place of considering a good/loving response, being the CHOOSER in one's own life and not the victim of someone else. Then bestow a total ERASEMENT of the offense, on the black board of the eternal records in your own memory.
Only you can choose to change your soul's role from a “Victim -Reactor” to a "Bestow-er of Grace.” (As long as you have a story to tell, you have not released all the blame energy.)
Forgiving ourselves requires RELEASING THE JUDGMENT OF ALL OTHERS WHO COMMIT THE SAME ACT.
All intentions must become aligned with Love's intention. Choose to be an instrument to flow Love's Light to ignorance, fear, rejection, perpetration etc. This will clear judgment towards the other, and heal our own soul.
RELEASING FROM JUDGEMENT
We have no right to be judgmental of one another. The Inner Judge was created for changing ourselves. We can accept who others are. Everyone is where they want to be in their own trek towards maturity. If you want to improve yourself, and become freer, lighter, happier, more serene and centered, YOU must CHOOSE the time for your own change, not for someone else. There is a saying, "When the student is ready, the teacher will appear." That teacher can be a squirrel, a tree, a child, a priest, a book etc. any creation can provide a metaphor. Light can get to us through any channel, when we are ready for more truth. Forgiveness essence, is the glorious energy of Love. We become a part of the Love Kingdom when we are instruments of forgiveness/grace. We become part of the negative Death Kingdom as we destroy ourselves through maintaining the energy of blame, bitterness,comptetition. resentment, hatred, revenge, jealousy, vindiction and punishment. Only grace can replace dark characteristics we have collected.Being rigorously determined to know and love the truth is a key to finding the real truth about true love, real joy and eternal life.

